OKCupid did a study to determine what online daters typically search for as far as characteristics in the opposite sex. Now they determined a few different things from this study but one of the findings that made an impression on me was that Black women are the most ignored race on the net — that […]

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This is for the fellas who have been dating a chick for a while and every time they think they are getting somewhere she tears it all down. You think it is something that you are doing but guess what? You probably did nothing wrong. Women know after a short time of meeting a man […]

People deal with breakups differently: you can hold tears back all day and splurge on a carton of ice cream at night or use that energy to go out and find another.  Does it make you a bad person if you skip the sadness stage and go right onto taking on rebounds?

There are several miscommunications and misunderstandings that occur between men and women daily. Some are avoidable and some are never ending. Check out the 5 most common misconceptions men have about women. 1. As much as he may try to empathize, he knows nothing about how you feel when you are on your period. For […]

Attraction is something that is instinctual. It drives from within our core. What we like, what we don’t like. Sometimes we are unable to turn that animalistic force off like a light switch. Some have mastered this and would never cross boundaries and lines. While others are not that capable. Acting on that attraction is […]

After every relationship there should be certain lessons that you learned and a level of growth that you achieve after wards. Some people come into your life in order for you to learn and or grow but not necessarily for them to be a permanent fixture in your life. Here are a few questions that […]

Our celebrity and entertainment news correspondent, Jawn Murray checks in with the latest news about former American Idol Fantasia. Find out more of the facts or gossip on this ongoing saga.

It’s 7:00 pm and you’re just getting home from work.  All of your girlfriends are texting you about Wine Down Wednesday or Thirsty Thursday.  Newly single, you know that you should be saying “yes.”  The key to getting over someone is keeping yourself as busy as possible, choking back every tear, and not thinking about […]

Commitment. What is it about this word that places fear through the inner dwellings of some men’s souls? Why does it seem so hard for some males? Could it be because of the whole caveman theory and the idea that men were designed to spread their seed and have more than one woman? Or could […]

I have an observation that I want to share. I’ve come to the conclusion that the some Black men expect far too much from Black women. Far more than what they are willing to give themselves. Again, this is some men, not all.

Dear Gay Best Friend, I just learned about you and I think what you are doing is wonderful. I love the advice you give, and I know it is true and honest. Here it is, I have been with my man, “Isaac,” for eight years and I am ready to leave. First of all, this relationship was doomed at the beginning. Everything I said I did not want in a man is what I ended up […]