You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, For starters, I brought your book and I haven’t been able to put it down yet honey. I find myself re-reading chapters, highlighting and taking notes. You’re definitely speaking the truth and I love that. When I […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I’m confused about my marriage. Well, when me, and my fiancée decided to get married I wanted to get everything out in the open and I told her that I had cheated on her. I apologized for […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I have been dealing with this man for about a year now. He is the type of man that I had been looking for, but five months into the relationship I found out he had a woman. […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, My man who I’ve been dating for five years doesn’t make love or is romantic . He doesn’t dance to music when we go out. I’ve tried talking to him about it several times. He may do […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I’ve been talking to this girl for over a month now. We meet online and had, and, still do have great conversation. We have been out three times in this time period, but haven’t been out for […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I have this situation where I have feelings for someone who has a position where he is closely watched (pastor).  He is single and has never been married. We have talked before and it has been put […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I liked the “REAL” responses you have given to previous writers so I decided to write you myself. I am in a unique situation. I am 21-year old black woman and I have an almost two year […]

VIA: Elev8.com Constant emotional abuse from one person – or many people – can create feelings of hate in a person.  If you are dealing with these feelings, here are a few tips on how to heal without hating: Step 1: Prayer. I pray for those who have hurt or abused me. I have also […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I really appreciate you giving all your abundance of knowledge without a sugarcoat to feed my ego. So, I know I can trust you to keep it real with me. I recently started working at my old […]

Women are sensitive creatures. We often feel unappreciated quite easily. This is not always intentional by our partner but it is avoidable. Men should know that when their wife or girlfriend does certain acts for them, it is in an effort to be pleasing. Efforts should not be taken lightly. Here are a few “efforts” […]

Breaking up is a little like field-dressing your own chest wound. You don’t have a choice. Your heart’s still thumping in there somewhere. Do it right and the damage might be negligible, the scar insignificant. You’ll be back in the s— before you know it. Do it poorly and you’ll be left lying around for […]